Michaelmas End of Term Address

December 13, 2024

On the last day of the Michaelmas Term, the Head addressed pupils before they departed for the holidays.


As ever, it is lovely to share this service as a community today before we spend time apart in our different settings. While I am sure that we could have a guess at what happens in each other’s houses over Christmas, I think we would be surprised by the range and scale of difference between families in terms of their traditions: when do you open presents? When do you have the main Christmas meal? Do you have Christmas crackers at all and, if so, when do you pull them? Do you watch the King’s Speech? And so on. 

 

And that is before you think about people who have different faiths or traditions. I enjoyed one of the most inspirational visits of my year to Kensington Primary School in East Ham earlier this week. I went to see our WoLLoW scheme in action there but arrived just before their dress rehearsal of their Year 5 play, Christmas Around the World, featuring differing cultural traditions at this time of year in countries such as Turkey, Spain, Australia and the UK. The pupil population is 95% non-White British and the majority are from non-Christian families, so the sense of educational openness and inclusive celebration was intoxicating. 

 

Yet the consideration of reality during the upcoming holiday in different settings started for me somewhere else: the excellent resources prepared by our peer supporters in tutor slides to raise awareness around grief and National Grief Awareness Week which took place earlier this month. 

 

I am going to say more about this. If anyone finds the topics raised uncomfortable, pastoral staff are available towards the West End in order to offer support. 

 

Key points from the peer supporters’ slides were that: 

  • grief is not confined to an emotion connected with death but may come as a result of many different types of loss; 
  • people experience grief in a number of ways and there are different social expectations in different parts of the world; 
  • the key is to communicate in ways which feel comfortable to the individual; 
  • expert help is available for those who feel they need to talk. Relevant organisations include Nelson’s Journey, Norwich Mind and the Good Grief Trust. 

 

While statistical research undermines the commonly held belief that there is a spike in suicides at Christmas time, there is no doubt that this “season of good cheer” is not experienced as such by all people. You may think that this is not an appropriate topic for this address, but I take my lead from the peer supporters’ advice: we need to talk about these difficult topics to break down taboos about them. On a separate but related theme, earlier in the term the 6th Form heard an excellent address about men’s mental health on International Men’s Day, where again the need for open and honest communication was highlighted. 

 

We had the treat which was the Choreography Competition at the start of this week. The winning entry in the senior category was a duet by Leah Feetham and Aggie Johnson called “To my sister”, its theme of love and loss is particularly poignant for this address.

 

The theme of grief ties in with one of the most powerful books I have read this year. It is called 3 Dads Walking – 300 Miles of Hope and was written by three fathers who walked across the country in 2022 to raise awareness and money for the suicide charity PAPYRUS because they had each lost a daughter in this way. There was a particular Norfolk connection because one of the fathers is from here and the walk finished in this county. 

 

The book was harrowing, certainly, but there was also a message of hope and practical action which was inspirational. Some key statistics and messages that I took from the book were as follows: 

  • On average, 135 people are directly affected when an individual takes their own life; 
  • Suicide is the biggest killer in those under 35 in this country; 
  • Those closest to people who have died by suicide are 80-300% more likely to take own lives; 
  • The main message from the three fathers to avoid the shocking devastation that they experienced was to keep talking:  “talk, talk, talk”. They felt that “suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem…there is always away out, no matter how hard it seems”; 
  • They recommended the PAPYRUS Hopeline 247 as a source of immediate, expert help.   

 

Talk talk talk: we certainly should not think it could never happen here. Indeed, I am in my 14th year at Norwich School and know that this community has experienced it directly. Having been involved in services of memorial and thanksgiving, for me, the points about the ripple effects of a young person’s death through families and friendship groups resonate strongly. 

 

Right time or wrong time to talk about this? In some ways, it can never be the right time so we just have to get over our reticence and make sure that the key points have been made. Also, Advent and Christmas are a joyful season for Christians but one must also remember that this time captures a moment of vulnerability in the shape of a baby. 

 

One of the aspects of the manger scene is to invite us to reflect on the preciousness and fragility of our lives and relationships. Another of my favourite moments this week has been the Special Schools Service which took place in here yesterday; it is why our presentation assemblies were on Wednesday and Friday. It is always humbling to see a congregation very different from this one sitting in these seats, a congregation of people facing significant challenges on a daily basis. Yet the atmosphere is one of unbridled joy; I am afraid to have to tell you that the cheer when the Christmas tree lights are turned on in the organ loft puts some of your singing in the morning to shame. 

 

During this upcoming holiday, keep your challenges in perspective and remain grateful for what you have. Do not be afraid to reach out if you need support and be there for each other as a network of friends if those around you are struggling. I trust that we are renewed in our wish to be forces for positive change within our families and the wider world, both at home in the coming weeks and as we prepare for the start of 2025. 

 

I wish you and your families a happy holiday. 

By Eleanor Lewis October 30, 2025
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Melissa Hawkings (U6) has become a full member of The National Youth Orchestra of Great Britain. To celebrate her success, Mrs Fry sat down with her and asked her some questions. Mrs Fry: Melissa, huge congratulations on becoming a full member of the National Youth Orchestra of Great Britain. You’re not completely new to this, are you? Can you tell me what your involvement has been in NYO so far? Melissa Last year I was a residency guest so I took part in the spring in the summer concerts in the full horn section, including playing The Planets and Star Wars music at The Proms in the Royal Albert Hall, and the year before I was an associate member, which a nice introduction to NYO. One of the best concerts I played in was as an off stage horn in the Alpine Symphony conducted by Sir Mark Elder. Mrs Fry: Wow! That’s not an opportunity that comes around too often! A whole new learning curve for playing in time. What will it mean to you now that you’re a full member? What will your annual commitment be? Melissa: I’ll do three of the courses a year including the 14 day summer residency, four days of which is the concert tour. We might do some community work too, introducing instruments and music to young people. Mrs Fry: How does a residency day look? Melissa: We rehearse from 9am until 5pm with breaks and then again in the evening until 9pm. It’s a bit of a marathon! There is a rest day though. Sometimes we have full orchestra rehearsals, sometimes, full brass and sometimes horn sectionals. Mrs Fry: Do you get to see the music in advance of the course? Melissa: Yes, we get sent the music a month in advance so everyone turns up able to play everything. Because of this we can spend time on interpretation and really playing together which is what makes NYO so good. Mrs Fry: Melissa, you don’t get to be an elite level musician playing at National level by accident. Tell me about your journey to NYO. Melissa: When I was about 10 I went to an NYM (Norfolk Youth Music, now Guildhall Young Artists) Open Day days at CNS where you could try different instruments. I don’t know why I chose the horn. It just felt fun and was the most unusual. I wanted to be different so I chose it! I remember when I got home trying for ages to play a scale. I kept playing over and over again until I could play it. Then I took part in groups at school and when I felt more confident with my playing I joined the County Youth Wind Band. A little later I joined the Norfolk County Youth Orchestra where I was a member for 3 years. I think NCYO was actually really important for me because it’s how I got I to orchestral playing. I remember the first thing we did was Beethoven 5. It was really exciting. I was so nervous I was barely playing because everyone was older than me! I just kept doing it because I really liked the music. And then after that, I started going to Junior Guildhall in London on Saturdays which pushed me to the next level, playing with people from all over the country. The highlight of that for me was lots of chamber music playing. I’m now at Junior Royal College with a new teacher on Saturdays, leaving Norwich station at 0630 and returning home by 7pm or so. Mrs Fry: Long day! We’ve spoken a lot about the orchestral side of things and the coaching that you get outside of your daily routine but what does it what’s required of you to get to your level as an individual? What do you do on a daily basis? Your fitness routine? Melissa: Early in the morning, I have a half an hour warmup routine where I do different technical exercises just to make sure every aspect of my playing stays in shape: if you don’t use it, you lose it! Not every day is the same due to school commitments, but ideally I’ll do three hours practice. That’s what I did when I was preparing for the auditions: I like to do like an hour of technique, an hour on the excerpts and then an hour on my pieces. When I’m consistently doing three hours practice I notice such a difference in my playing - it’s like an athlete, you need constantly to be playing and being mindful of how you play - efficient and good practice is so important. Mrs Fry: There must be pieces of music that is special to you or musicians that have inspired you? Melissa: Right now, my favourite composer is Stravinsky. I loved playing Firebird at 14. I thought this is the most crazy, insane thing I’ve ever heard! The horn parts are amazing! That lead me into listening to The Rite of Spring and then I played Petrushka in NYO last spring at the Roundhouse in Camden. I also like Debussy and Ravel. The horn player who has inspired me is Sarah Willis, the 4th horn player in the Berlin Philharmonic. She’s not just a classical horn player - she’s recorded the Mozart horn concertos reimagined with Latin influences. Mrs Fry: Sounds slightly different to the Norwich Baroque version coming up in March when you will perform one of the Mozart concertos in the Norwich School Choral Society concert! Melissa: Yes! I also watched a masterclass with her where she made instant differences to peoples’ playing. I also really like Ben Goldscheider, a young horn player. We share the same teacher. Mrs Fry: So, what next for Melissa Hawkings the horn player? Melissa: I’m hoping to go to conservatoire next year. My dream career is to be an orchestral player but now I just want to see where it takes me - what kind of ensembles I might play in as I go through conservatoire and beyond. Mrs Fry: Who knows, you could follow Sarah Willis’s trailblazing footsteps to the Berlin Phil. Good luck with it all. If you have been inspired by Melissa’s musical journey and want to follow in her footsteps, here are some links to the local music groups she joined: https://www.gsmd.ac.uk/study-with-guildhall/children-and-young-people/guildhall-young-artists/guildhall-young-artists-norwich https://www.gsmd.ac.uk/study-with-guildhall/children-and-young-people/guildhall-young-artists/guildhall-young-artists-norwich/norfolk-county-youth-orchestra And tickets to NYO concerts are free for teens! Next up ‘Shimmer’ in January. Details here: https://www.nyo.org.uk/performances/shimmer Concert tour highlights - https://youtu.be/oVDFRtvPxsE?si=QqYITRq7GpjaBMp9 Jupiter in rehearsal - https://youtu.be/Hl2iTL4tnxk?si=UeWadansnIeV_x7e
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By Eleanor Lewis October 18, 2025
At the end of an industrious first half-term, 31 pupils embarked on our annual U4/L5 Academic Scholars residential trip to London. The visit was designed around the following key aims: To enjoy each other’s company outside of school and spend time discussing what we encounter. To learn more about our capital city- key historical sites of societal and scientific significance and important works of art. To create links between curricular areas of interest and personal interest and develop new areas of interest. To use this trip as inspiration to complete a reflective assignment to answer one of these questions: Is London truly an iconic city, as it is often described? How have different historical periods shaped London? What does the future hold? When learning about London, whose stories do we hear and whose stories are missing? In order to achieve these aims we visited a wide variety of attractions over our two days in London. We began with a walk from Liverpool Street to the Tower of London where Mr Rowlandson helped pupils to reflect on both the geography of this site as well as comparing the history of the White Tower with Norwich Castle. We then travelled along the Thames to Greenwich in order to visit the National Maritime Museum, Greenwich Observatory and the fascinating Astronomy Photographer of the Year exhibition. Dr Leeder, as Head of Nelson House, was delighted to be able to see Admiral Nelson’s coat (complete with bullet hole on the left shoulder!), particularly since the trip took place on Norwich School’s commemoration of Trafalgar Day. We also discovered that linking art and astronomy to enter the photography competition is much more complicated than taking a snap of the night sky, as Mrs Grant explained before our visit. After a trip back down the Thames and a jovial dinner together our evening was spent at the National Gallery before a walk to our hotel, absorbing the vibrant atmosphere of London on a Friday night. Saturday morning began with a lively scavenger hunt around Bloomsbury, passing institutions like SOAS and UCL and even encountering a film shoot on one street. The group then visited the British Library where Mr Douglas-Field offered a compelling introduction to this building (8km of shelving are added every year to the collection!) and prompted pupils to reflect on the future of such an institution. Inside we visited the Treasures Gallery, where we saw the Magna Carta, Beethoven’s original score for his Pastoral Symphony and a notebook of Leonardo Da Vinci, amongst many other amazing artefacts. The British Library also houses a brilliant Sound Archive where we could listen to anything from bird calls to regional accents. As we returned to Norwich pupils began to reflect on their visit and their assignment task. Pupils will share their work with their peers online and offer comment on each other’s work. We are so looking forward to reading pupils’ work and seeing how their perspectives have been shaped by our trip.
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By Eleanor Lewis October 17, 2025
On Trafalgar Day each year, we come together to celebrate Viscount Nelson, who famously led his troops to a decisive victory in the Battle of Trafalgar, which took place in 1805. Nelson’s leadership in the navy was marked by his outstanding bravery in conflict, and his ability to lead from the front and stand up for what he believed right. For example, he opposed the harsh and traditional naval punishment of flogging, showing his concern for his soldiers, as he felt they should be treated with respect. His resilience was legendary; despite being blind in one eye, he continued to fight fiercely, displaying an extraordinary courage that inspired loyalty and confidence among his men. Today, as we commemorate the Battle of Trafalgar, we honour not only Nelson’s strategic brilliance in naval warfare but also the leadership qualities he demonstrated throughout his career. This year, Trafalgar Day coincides with One Norwich School Day, a day dedicated to celebrating the strength and diversity within our school community. To me, these themes of leadership and community are key to furthering our thriving school life, and important take aways from figures such as Nelson, one of the many we celebrate throughout the school year. They remind us that true leadership is not just about commanding on the battlefield but about fostering unity and strength in the everyday lives of those around us. That’s leads me consider the impact leadership has within our school and how it is evident in our everyday life. The importance of strong leadership cannot be overstated. Traditional leaders like Nelson lead by boldly standing as visible symbols of strength, courage, and decisiveness. Their actions motivate those around them and create a sense of purpose and unwavering loyalty. Nelson’s own leadership style was characterized by his willingness to face danger head-on, maintaining a sense of calm and demonstrating bravery even when injury threatened to take him down. This bravery was demonstrated when he continued to give orders in a battle despite losing the vision in one of his eyes. His leadership inspired through action and sacrifice, radiating unshakable confidence and a commitment to a cause greater than himself. But while this form of leadership is undoubtedly heroic, it can also feel distant and almost unattainable. Leaders such as Nelson appear made in an entirely different way to the rest of us; creating people who are able to act fearlessly and decisively in moments of extreme pressure. This heroic image, though inspiring, can sometimes create a pedestal so high that it alienates us, making us wonder if such leadership is out of reach. It can foster the belief that leadership requires a flawless strength and courage that most people lack, widening the gap between us and the leaders we admire. If you’ve ever looked up at the statute of Nelson on the green, you might know how out of reach these heroic leaders can feel. Yet leadership does not have be confined to this traditional idea. Leadership can also be deeply personal and flexible, reflecting the unique qualities each of us inherently possess. Though Nelson’s courage will always be timeless, I want to turn your attention to another kind of leadership: the power of ‘quiet leadership.’ Quiet leadership often goes unnoticed because it doesn’t demand the spotlight. Despite this, some of the most impactful leaders are those who lead through everyday acts of kindness and empathy - whether it’s offering a helping hand, holding a door, or simply being present when someone needs support. Leadership is not solely defined by heroic behaviour; it begins with compassion, involvement, and genuine care for others. Every one of us has the potential to be a leader, not by striving to be perfect and inspiring all the time; but by practicing empathy, kindness, and demonstrating strong commitment to the communities we are in. A figure who embodies quiet leadership remarkably well is Marcus Rashford. Many of you will know him for his football skills, but beyond the pitch, Rashford has quietly championed a campaign to extend free school meals and reduce child food poverty in the UK. His leadership style stood out to me, as it was not loud or confrontational; instead, it was humble and purposeful. Rashford used his high-profile platform to build connections and create real, measurable change. He quietly wrote personal letters to government officials, using his personal experience to advocate for children who needed support. This quiet, humble approach to leadership resonated with me, and evidently many others nationally, as people rallied to support his cause. Rashford’s example is powerful because it teaches us that leadership does not rely on volume or visibility alone; it is rooted in authenticity and the ability to include others through shared values and purpose. True strength lies in the community and the collective efforts that bring about meaningful change. Even Nelson demonstrated qualities of quiet and committed leadership. One story that particularly strikes me is from just before the Battle of Trafalgar. It is said that Nelson ordered the last dispatch boat, which was already en route back to England, to be recalled temporarily so that a petty officer could include a personal letter to his wife. This small act of kindness reveals a lot about his leadership style, it is not just about heroic gestures on the battlefield but also about being attentive to the needs of individuals within a team, no matter their role. By prioritizing the desire of this junior sailor, Nelson showed that true leaders care deeply for every individual under their command, fostering a sense of community and belonging. As you move around school today, I invite you to reflect on these lessons from both history and the present day, using them to think about the leaders you admire and the qualities which make them inspiring. I also urge you to consider your own role as leaders in this school, whether that’s in a sports team, classroom, lunchtime club or on the playground, leaders are found everywhere. Finally, I am going to share a quote with you that has stuck with me since I heard it; Barack Obama said, “One voice can change a room.” And my challenge to you is this: How will you make your voice heard? Think about this, sometimes, those who shout the loudest are not truly heard – could it be that taking the time to listen to others, is the best way to get people to listen to you?  As an old teacher used to say; if you were - thank you for listening.
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By Eleanor Lewis October 16, 2025
The Girls’ Hockey programme has enjoyed an excellent start to the season, with teams across all age groups showing determination, teamwork, and impressive progress on the pitch.  The U12s have had some highly competitive fixtures, demonstrating real growth in skill and confidence as the season has progressed. A particular highlight was the U12A team’s outstanding 3-1 victory over Woodbridge School. The squad also performed brilliantly at their recent tournament, qualifying for the Regional Finals - a fantastic achievement and reward for their hard work and enthusiasm. The U13s have gone from strength to strength, producing a series of excellent performances. The U13A team recorded an emphatic 9-0 win against Glebe House and followed this up with a strong 5-2 victory over Culford School. The U13B team also impressed, battling hard to earn a 2-1 win against Wymondham College’s A team, a testament to their determination and growing confidence. The Inters teams continue to make steady progress, competing in several close and exciting matches. The 14A team notched up impressive wins against both Framlingham College and Ipswich School, while the B team recorded a solid win over Framlingham College and a well-earned draw with Culford School. The Senior teams have also enjoyed a strong start. The 3rd XI have shown fantastic grit and determination throughout the season, highlighted by an excellent 4-0 win against Wymondham College’s 2nd XI. The 2nd XI have been superb, losing only one game so far, with standout moments including qualification for Regionals and a commanding 4-0 victory over Culford School. Meanwhile, the 1st XI have been working tirelessly behind the scenes, with their 3-1 win against UEA’s 1st XI reflecting their exceptional progress and dedication. With such positive momentum, the future of the Girls’ Hockey programme looks incredibly bright.
By Eleanor Lewis October 16, 2025
Following the success of last season, the Boys’ 1st XI hockey team has entered a rebuilding phase, welcoming eight new faces into the squad. With a fresh mix of talent and energy, the focus this term has been on developing team cohesion, refining structures, and preparing for the challenges of Tier 1 competition. The team began their campaign with a series of local fixtures against Dragons, Norwich City, Dereham, and Magpies. These early matches provided valuable opportunities for the new-look side to gel and test combinations in competitive settings. The boys showed great commitment and resilience throughout, competing hard in every fixture and demonstrating steady progress with each performance. Their opening Tier 1 encounter came against Ipswich, where the team narrowly missed out on victory in a closely contested game. Despite the result, the performance was full of positives, with the squad displaying strong defensive organisation and promising attacking intent. The following fixture saw the team take on Whitgift – the four-time reigning champions – where they once again rose to the challenge, matching their opponents for long periods and showing encouraging signs of growth.  With each match, the group continues to build confidence, understanding, and belief. The foundation being laid this season will no doubt serve the team well for the remainder of the campaign and beyond.
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