“If we’re kind and polite, the world will be right.” - Katie Grote Addresses Pupils

February 7, 2025

Let love be genuine; hate what is evil, hold fast to what is good;

love one another with mutual affection;

be ardent in spirit; be patient in suffering.

Extend hospitality to strangers.

 

Bless those who persecute you;

Rejoice with those who rejoice; weep with those who weep.

Do not be haughty.

 

If it is possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all."


 

Today’s reading comes from St Paul’s Letter to the Romans. Yes, that’s right - the Romans. I am Mrs Grote, I am part of the Classics Department where we teach Classical Civilisation, Greek and Latin to many of you: 

But that’s not why I was recently drawn to this letter to the Romans. 


No. Today’s reading, written 2000 years ago, came to mind this Christmas when I was sat in the cinema. 

I am not a frequent cinema goer, but recently I found myself there twice, and on consecutive days. 

One trip had comfy velvet sofas, waiter service and a glass of wine; the film was Conclave: set in the Vatican, the heart of the Catholic Church, about the election of a pope. Surely it was this film, set in Rome itself, with spoken and sung Latin, that led me to think of Paul’s Letter to the Romans; no, today’s reading came to me on my other cinema trip: no wine this time, no comfy sofa, just the standard seating of the Odeon, and a fidgety six year old for company. The film? Paddington in Peru. 

 

For those less familiar with this recent heartwarming movie, Paddington and the Browns make a journey through the Amazon to find Paddington’s beloved Aunt Lucy who has gone missing from her home for retired bears: on their dangerous quest, they face everything from white water, to poisonous spiders: yet the cause of their survival, as well as the original reason for the journey, is the family’s love for each other.


Today’s reading urged us to “love one another with mutual affection” to “rejoice with those who rejoice, to weep with those who weep.” In other words, like Paddington and the Browns, to love and support each other, in good times and bad.

In Paddington 2, things go wrong for Paddington. He is wrongly imprisoned; but during his jail sentence the prison changes from a place of darkness and hostility to a place of kindness and hope, because of his actions: he teaches his inmates to make marmalade, he brightens their surroundings with flowers, and tea parties, and, in doing so, a sense of community is renewed.


Earlier in his letter, St Paul talks of a love that is genuine. Paddington’s small kind acts in the prison are small acts of love, of genuine love. Nothing grand. Nothing rehearsed. Just simple, sincere actions, that create community and a warmth that is found again and again in the Paddington films and books. We can likewise create such warmth in our communities:


By holding a door open; by giving up a seat up on a bus; by acknowledging and smiling at someone you walk past, even a teacher. With any one of these, you will improve someone’s day.

However, not every instruction from St Paul’s letter to the Romans is so easy to follow:

Bless those who persecute you; live peaceably with all. 

This is much harder to achieve, but Paddington makes a jolly good attempt. Mr Curry, his nosy and miserly neighbour, is almost always unpleasant and rude to and about Paddington. But Paddington doesn’t hold a grudge; he always responds with goodwill and good cheer. Living peaceably with all doesn’t mean pretending everything is fine or avoiding conflict. It concerns responding appropriately to it. The next time something doesn’t go your way, pause and think: can I respond with understanding instead of anger? Can I, like Paddington, reject conflict and spread peace?


This has already been a lovely, wholesome message for a Friday morning: Paddington and St Paul are all about love and peace; so, off you go; follow their example; spread love and peace. But it wasn’t that message that led me to St Paul’s Letter to the Romans while sat in the Odeon that afternoon. At least not at first.


We sit here in a building steeped in tradition, in particular the Benedictine tradition. Excerpts of the rule of St B are read here at services every day: “All guests who present themselves are to be welcomed; all humility should be shown to a guest. When a guest is announced, he should be met with every service.”


The key teaching of the Benedictine tradition shown here is that of hospitality, offered to all, by all. And here, in the middle of today’s reading, St Paul asks for the same:

Extend hospitality to strangers.

Michael Bond, the 1950s creator of Paddington, knew about this: he knew of families in WWII who gave homes to evacuee children in the Blitz, and to Jewish children fleeing via the KinderTransport. The background of welcoming strangers was very recent history for Michael Bond, as he started Paddington’s story.


When Paddington first arrives in London, he doesn’t know the culture, the language, or how to navigate the city and finds himself alone at a train station. In that moment, the Browns embody the Biblical call and the Benedictine ideal to “extend hospitality to strangers.” He is a refugee, but they do not see him as a problem; they see him as someone in need. They take him in, into their home, their family, and their lives.


But hospitality doesn’t just have to mean house guests or concern immigration policies. Who might need our hospitality today? Is there someone new, someone alone or someone struggling to fit in? Hospitality isn’t only about opening up a home or our borders; it’s about opening our hearts and minds and making space for others in our established habits and busy routines and even into circles of friends; that’s what’s The Browns did for Paddington, and it’s what St Paul – and the Benedictine tradition – ask of us too.

 

I could go on: St Paul advises the Romans to be ardent in spirit, to rejoice in hope and be patient in suffering. Paddington so often shows relentless optimism, amidst his many many disasters; likewise, he very naturally connects with people from all walks of life – antique dealers, tough, intimidating criminals, bus drivers, shopkeers, bin men – perfectly following the teachings of St Paul and St Benedict about humility, rather than haughtiness.

 

In the end, the lesson is clear, and it is the same lesson, whether we’re talking about the faith of St Paul in his letter to the Romans, or the Benedictine traditions that shape the life of this cathedral, or the world of The Brown Family and Paddington: who, today, quite rightly, I leave to have the final word:

 

“If we’re kind and polite, the world will be right.”


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By Eleanor Lewis • September 29, 2026
Jonathan Pearson ON and Development Director gives us his take on leadership and service in the Norwich School community. Good morning, everyone. Not a day goes by without me greeting an ‘old friend’ in The Close. From his prominent vantage point, this military veteran keeps a very close eye on his school. Braving all weathers, his is a reassuring presence. If you think I am referring to Ronnie our longstanding Gatekeeper, faithfully manning the playground and monitoring proceedings, that would be a fair guess. At the school’s Remembrance Service, he is occasionally smartly attired in veterans’ uniform and sporting service medals. His understated professionalism from his blue hut keeps us all safe. He is periodically assisted by former bouncer, Pete, a commanding presence. Last year Pete dramatically came to the aid of a chocking pupil by performing the Heimlich Manoeuvre. Modest heroes both, the service of Ronnie and Pete to the school is exemplary. However, as we approach the anniversary of the Battle of Trafalgar, it is in fact Old Norvicensian Horatio Nelson to whom I was referring at the start of this address. His statue has stood on its Upper Close plinth since 1856. At installation, there were intense discussions on which way to orientate it. Should he face south to watch over the beautiful 44 acres of the Cathedral Close and the Duke of Wellington? Should he face west on to Tombland, the original centre of medieval Norwich? Or perhaps face east and as a man of God, take comfort from observing the timeless worship of this Cathedral. But no! The City Fathers orientated him firmly north towards his old school, his steely gaze fixed for eternity on the Chapel, his former classroom (in fact the only classroom in Norwich School in the 1760s). He is without question our most famous alumnus, a Norfolk man, who gloried in being so. It is right and proper that, in this intellectually curious and sceptical age, we should feel compelled to examine Nelson rigorously - the man and his legacy. There will inevitably be a range of opinions when considering him through a uniquely 21st century lens. Indeed, during the Covid lockdown the statue was vandalised. This, coupled with the work of incontinent pigeons, has required his statue to be professionally cleaned twice this decade. However, two things about Nelson never seem to be in doubt: Firstly, he was hero-worshipped in his lifetime. As news of his victory over the Franco-Spanish fleet at the Battle of Trafalgar was rushed to the Admiralty in London, joy was swiftly overshadowed by dismay at the news of his untimely death, aged just 47. Men openly wept in the street as his funeral cortège passed. His Norwich statue is mirrored by a commemorative one in Yarmouth and, most famously, yet another in Trafalgar Square, itself named in his honour. Thanks to this, he is an internationally recognised Briton. Never questioned are also his personal bravery, leadership and service to his country. Many people demonstrate similar qualities, but Nelson wore his bravery on his sleeve – quite literally! He lost an arm and the sight in one eye in service, whilst poor ship’s diet and chronic stress were reflected in his diminutive statue and sallow skin. Notoriously, he also suffered from horrendous seasickness. His courage was immediately apparent to all who met him. We talk a lot about bravery, leadership and service each autumn at Norwich School. I found myself reflecting on Nelson’s battle injuries since an issue with my own eyesight last year. On a Monday morning, I experienced clouding in one eye, and by evening I was all but blind in that eye; on the Tuesday I was diagnosed with a detached retina and operated on later that day. The miracles of modern medicine saved my vision, but Nelson had no such luxury. An eye injury sustained in 1794 in Corsica caused pain and debilitating headaches for the rest of his life, and the sight in his right eye. An explosion as he attacked the ramparts in Tenerife in 1797 caused a catastrophic injury to his right forearm. Remedy was swift and brutal: immediate amputation, with only rum to dull pain that would take five long months to subside. On the corridor that runs to the Head’s Study from the Quad, we have on display an original letter written in copperplate handwriting penned by Nelson’s right hand dating from 1787, and adjacent to it another written by him in a scarcely decipherable left-handed scrawl on HMS Victory in 1804. His right arm and writing hand had been lost in the interim period. Go seek them out! I greatly enjoyed a recent visit to HMS Victory moored in Portsmouth, particularly seeing Nelson’s private cabin. Responsible for a fleet of 31 vessels, formal handwritten orders conveyed between ships or updates to naval masters back in London were an ever-present requirement of his role. Nelson had a relentless work ethic, generating prodigious quantities of paperwork. Reflect on his daily privations: use of his non-writing hand, using his one good eye in the gloom by flickering candlelight in cramped conditions, plagued by seasickness on a rolling boat. A heroic achievement in itself. When Napoleon’s fleet threatened invasion of our country, the Admiralty and the nation put their unwavering faith in Nelson to deliver us from such existential threats. Nelson too knew this was his destiny. His career concludes with heroic acts of leadership shown on 21st October 1805, the day he died. Battles at sea in the early 19th century were violent, bloody affairs. The range and accuracy of cannons were only effective up-close, pummelling the enemy into submission. In the tranquillity of today’s Cathedral, it is scarcely possible for us to imagine the sounds, smells, injuries and terror of such carnage. I have though here a cannon ball from the Battle of Copenhagen, fired by Nelson’s flagship into the wall of that city in 1801. In the late 1980s, it was duly returned to us by a visiting Danish delegation. Imagine this being fired at you from here to say the middle of the nave; it would have readily taken heads off. After this service I will wait by the Cathedral door if anyone wants to feel the weight of it. Visualise Nelson in formal vice-admiral’s uniform proudly patrolling the upper decks of HMS Victory, dictating the hellish pace of battle, as his flagship pierced the French line and began pounding enemy ships. It seems sadly inevitable that a French sharpshooter in the rigging of the French vessel Redoutable alongside HMS Victory should have had an easy line of sight for that fatal shot through Nelson’s chest. News of British victory at Trafalgar, which would secure our Mediterranean shipping routes for over a century, reached Nelson as he expired. So, what can we learn from the much-vaunted leadership and service displayed by Lord Nelson? Well, one lesson might be that acts don’t have to be monumental to be important. Gatekeepers Pete, with his life-saving first aid, and Ronnie, with his daily vigilance, are wholesome examples of serving the community with distinction. As is the leadership shown by our fine new prefects, rousing captains on the sports field, or numerous acts of kindness shown by L6 during Community Service. You will all have your own everyday examples. Perhaps reflect on the words with which Mr Griffiths started this term, the famous quotation from car magnate Henry Ford: “Whether you think you can, or you think you can't, you're right!” I am sure Nelson would have believed that too. Despite all physical challenges, his destiny was a self-fulfilling prophecy. His implicit belief in himself, and the crews he led, shaped the course of Britain’s history, even at great physical cost, and eventually the ultimate sacrifice. Therefore, as you pass Nelson’s statue, I invite you to consider in that noble face a mindfulness that your self-belief, leadership, courage and service to others genuinely influences outcomes. You may or may not be a great hero in later life, but, with courage and kindness, we can all be a hero today in some small way. 
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2026 is National Year of Reading and we are going all in here at Norwich School! We know reading expands worlds, sharpens minds, and fuels creativity, so let's get inspired! Every month we are focusing on a different genre and hearing from a member of staff about what they like to read, why, when and where! For the start of a new school year, we’re talking to Mrs Hewitt about her favourite genre. Let's find out more about why Mrs Hewitt loves the great American novel... . Tell us a little bit about the genre; what common themes or elements do you particularly enjoy? I’m not completely sure this is an accepted genre, but I have always been drawn to American novels from the 20th century. Characters in these novels live harder lives than me. Life is not generally kind to them and they are not always kind to others nor make the ‘right’ choices. You can explore human frailty and resilience in the face of poverty, social disapproval or upbringing without ever leaving your cosy armchair. What was the book that introduced you to American novels? Was there a particular book or author that made you fall in love with this genre? Children’s books were nowhere near as varied and diverse when I was young. I grew up reading Noel Streatfield, Enid Blyton and Louisa May Alcott and other books written when my grandparents were young and if they weren’t written ‘in the olden days’, they were set ‘in the olden days’. Studying A-level English, French and German literature meant that I had many weighty tomes to plough through in my late teens, so discovering The Outsiders by S.E. Hinton and The Catcher in the Rye by J.D. Salinger in the school library opened my eyes to the idea that a book’s hero could be my age with a teen’s outlook. They put me in the shoes of people who were far bolder, more unconventional and exciting than me. Has your taste in this genre changed over time? Yes. I am less inclined to accept misogyny in books now. You could argue that Charles Bukowski intentionally set out to make his nihilistic alter ego Henry Chinaski to be unpleasant and repellent, but if I were to reread, I would rather choose The Best of Everything by Rona Jaffe, which is a great insight into life for young women in the early 50s dealing with such attitudes. Would you recommend this genre to someone who doesn’t usually read it? Why? I’m happy to tell people about books I’ve enjoyed, but rarely recommend any, as enjoyment of a book is so personal. I’ve recommended some of these to my son, but he won’t be told and flat-out refusal is just annoying. So, all I can say is that millions of people have loved them, but you may not. What do you enjoy most about reading, whether an American novel or anything else? I read to experience lives I will never live and to get to know people I will never meet. When and where is your favourite time and place to read? On public transport, as there are no other tasks or distractions to take me away from my book. I can fully disconnect from what is around me. A three-hour train journey? Divine. Yes please. Tell us a little bit about the genre; what common themes or elements do you particularly enjoy? I like the fact that I never know if the ending will be happy. The genre is typically described as ‘gritty’. These books focus on people who are on the edges of society, whether by choice or by circumstance, in a time of powerful, narrow-minded social judgement. I saw New York through the eyes of James Baldwin’s gay, black jazz musician Rufus in Another Country ; I enjoyed pool-hall hustles in Hard Rain Falling by Don Carpenter, a 24-hour dance competition in They Shoot Horse Don’t They? (Horace McCoy) and came face-to-face with the grim reality of war for young soldiers in Norman Mailer’s debut novel The Naked and the Dead. If you could step into the world of any book, which would it be and why? Well, I certainly wouldn’t step into In Cold Blood by Truman Capote and I’m not sure if I would survive On The Road in the way that Kerouac did, although I’d certainly enjoy travelling across America. Perhaps I would do this with Joan Didion instead in The White Album , or with John Steinbeck and his dog in his caravan while he wrote Travels with Charley and I could tell him how much I love East of Eden . Click here to see the monthly reading list!
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